I just built a new house in Skyrim. A member, whose name I won't divulge unless it is warranted, destroyed a bridge leading to it. He claimed that it was not griefing because it 1) it only served to make me angry and did not give any benefit to him, and 2) it was a public right of way.
Is there some definition of griefing that I am unaware of? It wasn't a huge deal, and I rebuilt it in minutes, but I want to get this straight for when he does it again and causes more damage.