This is just for you guys to be your self. What I'm saying is that to many people in this world change for other people, you don't need to change for anyone. When you change your not just changing you style or how you look, your changing your personality and everything about you. You certainly do not need to change for anyone. Friends, Family, or co-workers. Your friends can deal with your style and your personality. Your family should love you for who you are and your co-workers could most likely careless. (Now for me I started out as just a careless free girl and now I'm a girl who doesn't care what other people think of me or if I do something really really stupid and I get hated for it, I brush it off. So I'm going to tell you who I am basically. I'm a girl who likes alternative, dance, metal, pop, and rock songs. I'm a tomboy which every person I meet apparently hates tomboys from every where I move. I'm a girl who does not care if you mess or bully me, but when you start to bulling or messing with my friends or family the game is on, there are no boundaries between me and that person.) So don't try to underestimate me or anyone in that matter. Yes people are different, but they aren't that different from you. Just make sure what you want to do with your life before you do it.